That's it! I want my pound of flesh!!!

It's over! He's come home smelling of another woman's perfume for the last time. You've found where she has been e-mailing risque' photos of herself to her new boyfriend. Whatever the reason, you have decided it's time to file for divorce and it's going to be a war. STOP.

Before you go off half-cocked and do anything out of revenge, spite, or just plain stupidity. Consider this article from the Orlando Sentinel on the "Dos and Don'ts of Divorce." A special thanks to the Kentucky Family Law Blawg for the reference to the article. Additionally, consider the article I have posted on my site here on pre-divorce planning.

Keeping your head and doing a little planning before the papers start flying can save you a great deal of heartache down the road.